A Time for Listening and Caring
Dr. Janet Roseman, one of my colleagues from The Union Institute, has written a chapter for a new book from Oxford University Press entitled A Time for Listening and Caring: Spirituality and the Care of the Chronically Ill and Dying (with a foreward by The Dalai Lama). Dr. Roseman is a scholar of dance; her chapter in A Time for Listening is about the relationship between dance and healing. As part of her preparation for that chapter, Dr. Roseman spoke with me about the nature of healing and creativity. Subsequently I provided her with the following tidbit (which, I believe, is quoted in the new book):
Everything dances: leaves in the autumn wind, waves traversing the trackless sea, planets and stars in their languid orbits across the heavens. Those dances, ecstatic or tranquil or suffused with longing, are a way of taking a stand in the face of oblivion. In the spiraling and turning that lead ever toward a core of aliveness, the dancer affirms the spirit, calls forth its voice, pays attention to the patient instructions of the innermost self. Dance, and its handmaiden music, are spontaneous and authentic prayers of the soul.
Breath and bones and blood are the instruments of the soul's expression: frail, small things prone to the many sufferings of the world. All dances are therefore devotions of vulnerability. The dancer beseeches the soul, asks to be carried into solace, into comfort, into peace. The soul's answer is movement: thumping feet, an arm descending in a gentle arc, a shout emerging from the grieving heart. The sounds and movements of dance evoke all the secrets, reveal all the hidden places of refuge and sorrow. When you finally see that the lights and shadows of all creation are within you, the only reasonable response is to dance them awake.
This awakeness is the essence of healing. Life stretches us thin on our bones, makes us brittle and windswept, makes us yearn for something we can't quite reach. Dance delivers us into the knowledge of the vast being that hovers over our shoulder. Dance cracks us open, makes us light as gossamer, then knits together our dry bones into a kite whose string is pulled by the invisible.



Your writing wonderfully
Your writing wonderfully speaks of all that which I could not put words to when trying to explain what the purpose of dancing is for me. I am not a professional dancer, rather I dance only for myself and while dancing to the accompaniment of music made by man speaks to my soul and allows it to find it’s own voice I find dancing to the music of nature more rewarding. You mention that everything dances, and it is with that everything which I dance. Thank you for helping me through your writing to find the words that express what it is that leads me.
Hi Ross, A few years ago a
Hi Ross,
A few years ago a wrote a poem that I thought might compliment your last post. Here it is:
Dance
Explanations are unnecessary
Like stars on a cloudy night
Searching for the elusive
For a trophy, we hold no claim
Such is the essence of living
To meet and greet, fearless
To love and laugh, hopeful
Of a future woven, a common bond
To be seduced by this ideal self
Butter on a roll, ice in a glass
So inviting, your roots betray you
Look for the seed, I feel the need
You know the meaning as well as I
You offered the well defined line
An essential element of survival
Not the quality of compassion
Discovering the steps ever so slowly
An eloquent dance in deception
We all learn in the fog of the night
A dance without feeling has no name
Looking to discover precious gifts
Lacking in our nature, a magnet
To hold us together, unspoken truths
Blending the colors of lust & love
I have spoken softly in tongues
Understanding comes easy for me
Surrealism, these years in a word
Your torture beautifully veiled
You the square, we the circle
The common ground, invisible
If the shoe fits, wear it
Dance to reveal the meaning.
Gorgeously written, as
Gorgeously written, as usual, Ross. Bitterweet and lovely.